After the birth of our second son, made us into trouble. For my first son was aged 2.5 years. We do the work of at 05.00 A.M. (After Fajr prayer). Then we wash clothes while boiling water to drink a cup of tea or a cup of coffee. And I also cook for breakfast. Then my husband and our two sons to bathe, then he showered, dressed, eat breakfast and then go to the office.
Since I do not employ a "baby-sitter", then when I went shopping at the market, I entrust my son, who was named ALB, to Mrs. Pini, who was in the shop, where she sells food. While my first lull YBK. He slept alone, then I lock my keys Leave the house and my husband who was in office.
I came home from the market, I immediately cook in the kitchen. Incidentally I have the baby woke up, so I have a chance to work. I tucked my baby, in a special box bed baby, when my baby still can not stomach. But after the baby I've been able to stomach, then I sleep my baby on the floor that has been paved with mattresses. I am worried because my baby could fall and get hurt.
When I was cooking in the kitchen, I feel there are demons that tempt me. Sometimes I hear my baby crying. But when he visited me, my baby was still sleeping soundly. Both my son as a baby, have a special equation, they do not like to cry. In general, the baby would cry as a sign that the baby is uncomfortable for urine or feces. And also when the baby is suckling on his mother's request.
Both my son was crying like other babies, but only when they are born into this world, and when I stopped feeding them. And also they cry only when the brand has been dropped or hit something, get hurt. That's all just the second time my son fell and it was only when I was exposed to the influence of witchcraft. At that time, YBK fell from the fence to the front porch of his forehead swelled, and ALB fell out of bed in my in-laws house, until his lips issued a lot of blood.
Both my son as an infant, was equally exacting in spite of the pain though. When my baby was urinating or defecation, then baby I sighed as she stretched her body. And if my baby wants to suckle on me, then motioned with my baby sticking out their tongue and move her lips, as if he were feeding. And I felt there was something strange about my two babies. Every time I'm feeding two babies, I feel my heart pounding, as will be separated.
As a mother who is nursing a baby, making sleep time at night to be disturbed. Because many times awakened, if the baby has pee and defecate, then I have to change their clothes. And also when babies suckle at my request. Lack of sleep makes the next day I became tired while working. So I took a break in the afternoon, about an hour.
If my baby was sleeping, at the time of day, sometimes I take the opportunity to sleep. But if I can not sleep, then I'll do something. I usually ironed clothes. Sometimes also, the work I do at night with my husband. I am very happy, when he did the work in house. He loves to bathe in our two sons, and took our son out for a walk.
I am very happy, have a very understanding husband. But sometimes he get angry, when He was tired and was facing a problem. I do not like his attitude and thought I'd like to laze around. Actually, because not enough time, so sometimes I do not clean the floor, let alone do the job I've exhausted the other. And I do not want to do something in the house, while my son was playing outside the house without my supervision.
Our home state of residence also affects the atmosphere becomes less comfortable. Because we live in an old house in the Dutch colonial heritage, and have not been renovated. I became very trouble when I was cleaning the windows or doors are very high. In addition, I also do not want to clean the dust, while I take care of our two sons, because I am very worried if my two sons to cough and flu for vacuuming.
I make my fatigue had a desire to hire a maid, or a baby-sitter, in order to reduce my workload. One afternoon we sat in a chair in the front porch of the house. I sat holding his YBK, which was about five months old baby, then I express my wishes to my husband. "Pa,, what if we hire a maid ..?" Then he answered with a somewhat angry tone, "why KB!" KB is short for Family Planning.
My regular job every day at home, although I was tired, but I feel happy, when I saw my two sons grow up healthy. Both are not fussy, not naughty and stubborn. I do not struggle in vain to undergo suffering for the sake of moral and mental educate my two children when they were both in my heart. I am proud when there is a woman who said to me, "Mom had a baby, but I never hear their cries!"
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