How can I be happy to come to the house of my mother-in-law? If they like to say sharply, to hurt me. For what, I often come there? If they do not love me. Every time I was in the house, they always instill hatred in my heart. Then surely the growing sense of hatred in my heart, as well on them. They are not fair in love.
It seems they underestimate me. When I was there, and when I would come home, Wahyuni (She is the wife of Widarto), she gives me food surrounded by thousands of ants. Although disgusting, but I still receive it, in order Wahyuni not hurt. In addition to feeding, they usually give me a cheap sugar, but the goods are very heavy.
In place of my mother-in-law, there is a durian tree. However, each time the tree to bear fruit, they do not want to share with my durian fruit. As long as I had become a member of their families (about nineteen years old), as I recall they only give durian fruit, not more than ten times. In addition, the fruit of what they gave me was of poor quality. Good quality, they have given to their brother who they love. They give them anything in large quantities, but I am only get one, give me two if only the one is worse.
I do not understand, what they desire in me. When I was at the home of my mother-in-law, they always say bad things about me. Usually when I was in the kitchen to cook with them. My husband's mother said to me, "Mas Tejo (My husband) was working in the office, then worked again in the kitchen" (Mas is a call for men which is older than the caller).
I became confused, what should I do to deal with them? Every time they judge ill of me, I just shut up without saying anything to defend myself. When I want to eat and I took myself, and my mother-in-law thought that I have no shame. But when I did not eat on time, then she said, "Why not eat ....? Did you want to be served ....!?"
There is one sentence the words of my mother-in-law who is very sharp, so hard to forget my own. As I recall, it happened on a Sunday in July of 2000. Around 11:00 AM, when I walked into the kitchen, I saw my wife's mother was frying Tempe, squatting. Then I squatted beside her as well. Suddenly, she told me, "You're lucky to get Tejo, was unemployed .... you?" Her tone was flat, but pierced my heart.
I wonder, why did she say that to me? Though I never said that I was disappointed to get my Tejo to make as my husband. Endang might have said something bad on me on the she. Because she, in May of 2000, she came to my residence.
There, she helped to refine my family clothes. When she smooths shirt, my skirt, and I said to her, "This outfit is a memory gived by my ex-boyfriend." He a Graduate engineer, but now he has passed away.
I think maybe she was offended, because she was think that I intentionally making her heart hot. I favor the status of my ex-boyfriend. Moreover, once M is also ever told to my husband's elder brother, Sunarto, that once when I was a girl, I was loved by many men, and some of my ex-boyfriend have degree educated and have a job.
It may also have made my husband behaving badly on me and my son. Just a little mistake, he gets angry. When he gave his son a lesson in math, ALB is still sitting in school kindergarten, but ALB does not understand what he taught, then my husband said, yelling "Idiot ...!" My God, why did he have the heart to say rude to his son who was only 4.5 years?
My husband likes the habit of yelling to his son by saying ".... Stupid!", In the end he also got a scolding from the others. As I recall, it happened on a Sunday in June 2007. The story, our family was on his way home in the City of AB, after we visited the family of my husband. From the house we set off on a motorbike. Then the bike, we leave in on the terminal.
From the Terminal, we use the bus. There, we stayed one night. Then we returned home the next day. When on the way home, and we reached the fork in the road, my husband suddenly put the brakes on his bike, because of the left there is a car which contains palm fruits that aims to cut road transport, and will turn right opposite direction to us. The driver, although he guilty, but he dared snapped at my husband to say ".... Stupid!"
Every time I encounter a problem with my husband's family, I do not want to tell my husband about their badness. How can I tell my husband. because he believed in their words more than my words. Moreover, he loves his family. For this reason, he likes to help in financial matters or something of what they need without telling me. Because he felt that something that he gave to them were his, so no need to ask permission to me.
Actually, he is a very good husband. He has answered my father's desire to have a certificate of title of My father's house. Finally, he accept to do my request to take care of that certificate desired by my father. When it was in October of 1998, coinciding in the month of Ramadan. Although he fasted, but he came home and went to walk under the hot sun, because in order to save costs and also because the place that he go the distance is about 1 km. I am very grateful for his goodness.
I do not think, until finally my mother-in-law ill and was hospitalized in Yogyakarta, because she suffered a stroke and bend her tongues into and unable to speak. She was in hospital for about a week and stayed for two days at her home, she finally died, as I recall on October 10th, 2000.
Every good and bad no matter how small, there will definitely return. Originally God gave a warning to someone who has made a mistake. But if the person is not also willing to change his attitude to become a better person, then God will inflict on him a disaster. I strongly believe in the "Law of Cause and Effect". So I wish she could change her bad attitude, I do not want bad things happen to her.
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Every time I encounter a problem with my husband's family, I do not want to tell my husband about their badness. How can I tell my husband. because he believed in their words more than my words. Moreover, he loves his family. For this reason, he likes to help in financial matters or something of what they need without telling me. Because he felt that something that he gave to them were his, so no need to ask permission to me.
Actually, he is a very good husband. He has answered my father's desire to have a certificate of title of My father's house. Finally, he accept to do my request to take care of that certificate desired by my father. When it was in October of 1998, coinciding in the month of Ramadan. Although he fasted, but he came home and went to walk under the hot sun, because in order to save costs and also because the place that he go the distance is about 1 km. I am very grateful for his goodness.
I do not think, until finally my mother-in-law ill and was hospitalized in Yogyakarta, because she suffered a stroke and bend her tongues into and unable to speak. She was in hospital for about a week and stayed for two days at her home, she finally died, as I recall on October 10th, 2000.
Every good and bad no matter how small, there will definitely return. Originally God gave a warning to someone who has made a mistake. But if the person is not also willing to change his attitude to become a better person, then God will inflict on him a disaster. I strongly believe in the "Law of Cause and Effect". So I wish she could change her bad attitude, I do not want bad things happen to her.
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