In the maternity home, where there is a mother who was equally their babies. They all gave birth to a baby boy. Among these infants, there is a baby who cries more loudly, and his voice sounds more like a cat. If any of these babies there is the crying, the baby cries, the other also. But oddly enough I do not go crying baby. My babies are not bothered by the atmosphere of another baby crying, which is located next door.
One day after I gave birth to my baby, I saw the midwife to control his patients, I see she admonished a young mother who is next to my ward, because she does not like to see these women wearing lipstick, although polesannya thin. It was true what has been talked about, that she likes to say sharply, without respecting the feelings of others.
Back home, our family is very happy. For we begin to live our new lives, with our love fruit. We hired a midwife for bathing and massage as well as caring for our baby every morning and evening, in a period of forty days. But sometimes my husband also joined us to bathe the baby, if the mother witch doctor did not come on time.
To name our first son, my husband gave me full on. I gave him the name "Ajisaka Lingga Bagaskara". My prayers and hopes for our first son he could be a moral person perfectly. So that could be used as a pillar of support for human life. Tough and strong in doing all the goodness. And like the sun that always gave spiritual light to life on this earth.
In my memory, in April, M came to see our son. In our place, she stayed for about two weeks. The presence of M in the middle of our family, making our work is reduced. Every other day, I asked for help she to shop at markets that are located next to the home office where we lived. Besides shopping, she cooks well. I did not ask for help in cleaning the floor or she to another.
In my memory in August 1997, we came home my mother and father-in-law. Because we will be attending the wedding ceremony between Widarto and Wahyuni. Me and my husband's family went to the mini bus car hire. In the car, I sat beside my husband, my baby while my lap. I saw my husband's face looked grim. When I asked he, "What is up?" Then he answered with a ringing shout, "I do not know!"
Back home we were headed, I do not go in the house. But I stood holding my baby in a neighbor's porch on the side of the house. I stood up because no chair. I stand more than two hours, with no one invited me into the house, let alone eat and drink offered. Whereas in the house many guests invited to eat and drink. They've offered me to eat after the show is almost finished at around 2:00 PM.
Problem, in the opinion of others, regarded as a minor problem. But for me, it's a matter of very, very painful for me. To be sure, I was offended, because they have absolutely no concern to me. They do not respect me as a guest. They should understand, especially my husband. At that time, I was still in a state of breastfeeding my baby. As a mother who is breastfeeding her baby, would quickly feel hungry and thirsty. Yet when it was time for lunch, but I have to be wise. Maybe they forgot because I was busy taking care of the other guests.
To alleviate the burden of our work in the house, then we memperjakan a girl, aged about 17 years. She is Katmi name. She worked for about five months. From August 1997 until January 1998. She is bad. Without my knowledge, she took a "paper negatid film" (Kelis) photos of me with she. She took it from my dresser drawer. When she went shopping at the market, I try to open the bag she owned. I do not think, she dared to open the drawer. In addition, she is also very lazy to work. She's washing results, for me is not clean. Until she makes my husband angry. Finally, she stopped working at the will of herself.
In October 1998, I do not menstruate. So I see a doctor Amrizal. After I did a urine test, I was definitely pregnant. My pregnancy is the second time, I also experienced the same pain. Though I am still breastfeeding my son, ALB, although my baby is 21 months old, I stopped breastfeeding my son until he was even two years. When my pregnancy was already entering the third month.
In pregnancy my second son, I did my urine test at doctor Amrizal. But in every month, I check my health and my baby on Mother Midwife Rakitem. And in my pregnancy, I also experienced the same suffering. I experienced nausea and vomiting of pregnancy until I entered the seventh month.
In sickness, I have to take care of my son who is still very small. If no one watching him, I worry about the safety of he. Moreover, my son loves to play outside the house, because I hired a girl aged about 18 years. She is Rusminah name.
She is very honest, but at the time she worked, she recklessly, to make me angry. One day, after she ironed our clothes, then she put the iron on a chair., Until the seat to be forfeited. Although she made a mistake, and makes my heart mad, but I did not vent my anger for she, I tried to be patient. She worked for two months and finally she asked to stop working.
In the age of the womb I entered the ninth month, I hired a woman again. She was a widow aged about fifty-five years. She is Jaminem name. Which she introduced to me was my mother Karsem. Surprisingly, when for the first time I saw her face, at once my heart she hated until I was hesitant to accept she.
Until the time comes I will give birth to my baby, on the eve of Wednesday morning, Thursday June 10, 1999. At about 4:00 AM, I felt my stomach is sick. Therefore, my husband and I went to the maternity home "Tirtha Golden" with a motorcycle ride, and to keep my son ALB stay at home with Mom Jaminem.
Arriving at the maternity hospital, midwife mother invited us to sit, and then record my identity. She told me to lie down and examine my health and my baby's health as well. She told me to go for a walk along the corridor. Until at around 10:00. M., I feel my stomach is sick. Then she told me to lie down in bed, and look at my vagina. Then she gave me the injection of liquid vitamins.
She sat waiting for me, until it comes time for me to push. My husband is sitting in a chair next to where I lay. After about half an hour, I repeatedly push, then Mother Midwife my cervix cut three times. She told me to take a deep breath and then push so tight. Many times I push until the end of my second son was born safely at 1:00 PM, on Thursday, June 10, 1999.
To name our second son, my husband also handed over entirely to me. And I gave him a name: "Yoga Brahmacharya Kumaraseta" Because I hope that someday my son to the two it will be a person who always remember God Almighty. And also a holy man who was born and his heart, can also be a sweet name so as to uphold the high degree of family.
After I gave birth, midwife mother sewed my cervix that has been torn with scissors. Before she sewed, she gave me a handkerchief and a towel, and told me to bite him, to endure pain during suturing. I do not understand why she did this. Yet when I check my pregnancy to the last one before I gave birth to my second son, I have pleaded she, so before doing the sewing, so I was given the anesthetic, and use the thread without removable.
A week later, I came again to the Mother Midwife to remove the stitching thread. Before she took off the string, she also gave me a handkerchief and a towel, and told me to bite. What is the reason she did not do the same thing when I gave birth to my first son. Before she sewed, she gives anesthetic, and also use threads without removable. After she finished suturing, She said (in Java), "It became like a virgin again, Amen."
For approximately five months working on my mother Jaminem, as long as she's why I rate properties. It turns out I hate when I first saw her face, it is a sign that she is a person who is not good. She does not like to keep clean. I see the time she slept, she did not wash his hands and feet. Both feet she is very dirty because she does not wear footwear.
In terms of cleanliness in cooking, she is also extremely disgusting. She lazy to wash the vegetables, I've seen when she washed spinach leaves in a container just a one time cleaning. Should have at least three times washing, freshly cooked. I just found out, she would rather buy a decent meal at the diner instead of eating food that she cooked herself.
Every time she told me to go for shopping in the market, she always returns to me the rest of my change, the value of money is always less than Rp.1000, although its value is very small but I am still receiving. One day, when I was buying food at the diner, I was embarrassed after Mrs. Pini, who sells food told me that she Jaminem said to someone else when she was in her stall, "Money is only asked by the return Rp.50 Mrs. .. "
She returned the rest of the money to me, and I accept it. Rather she did not return, then I ask for my change. She has said one of the remaining amount of money that she has returned to me, the truth is Rp.150, rather than Rp 50. She has been harassing me. It made me angry, but I still did not make it. Big or Small return the remaining money must be returned, it does not mean I'm stingy, but I apply the discipline.
Another bad thing she did was she loves to steal rice and detergent. Pick it up bit by bit, and once collected a lot, and her daughter came to pick up the goods. I once saw when she took the rice, she said: "Cooking rice is three servings, yes ma'am ..?" I replied: "Yes", but she took four drinks. But I pretended not to know about it. I also worry if I'm wrong to see it. And finally I stopped him to work at my place.
One day after I gave birth to my baby, I saw the midwife to control his patients, I see she admonished a young mother who is next to my ward, because she does not like to see these women wearing lipstick, although polesannya thin. It was true what has been talked about, that she likes to say sharply, without respecting the feelings of others.
Back home, our family is very happy. For we begin to live our new lives, with our love fruit. We hired a midwife for bathing and massage as well as caring for our baby every morning and evening, in a period of forty days. But sometimes my husband also joined us to bathe the baby, if the mother witch doctor did not come on time.
To name our first son, my husband gave me full on. I gave him the name "Ajisaka Lingga Bagaskara". My prayers and hopes for our first son he could be a moral person perfectly. So that could be used as a pillar of support for human life. Tough and strong in doing all the goodness. And like the sun that always gave spiritual light to life on this earth.
In my memory, in April, M came to see our son. In our place, she stayed for about two weeks. The presence of M in the middle of our family, making our work is reduced. Every other day, I asked for help she to shop at markets that are located next to the home office where we lived. Besides shopping, she cooks well. I did not ask for help in cleaning the floor or she to another.
In my memory in August 1997, we came home my mother and father-in-law. Because we will be attending the wedding ceremony between Widarto and Wahyuni. Me and my husband's family went to the mini bus car hire. In the car, I sat beside my husband, my baby while my lap. I saw my husband's face looked grim. When I asked he, "What is up?" Then he answered with a ringing shout, "I do not know!"
Back home we were headed, I do not go in the house. But I stood holding my baby in a neighbor's porch on the side of the house. I stood up because no chair. I stand more than two hours, with no one invited me into the house, let alone eat and drink offered. Whereas in the house many guests invited to eat and drink. They've offered me to eat after the show is almost finished at around 2:00 PM.
Problem, in the opinion of others, regarded as a minor problem. But for me, it's a matter of very, very painful for me. To be sure, I was offended, because they have absolutely no concern to me. They do not respect me as a guest. They should understand, especially my husband. At that time, I was still in a state of breastfeeding my baby. As a mother who is breastfeeding her baby, would quickly feel hungry and thirsty. Yet when it was time for lunch, but I have to be wise. Maybe they forgot because I was busy taking care of the other guests.
To alleviate the burden of our work in the house, then we memperjakan a girl, aged about 17 years. She is Katmi name. She worked for about five months. From August 1997 until January 1998. She is bad. Without my knowledge, she took a "paper negatid film" (Kelis) photos of me with she. She took it from my dresser drawer. When she went shopping at the market, I try to open the bag she owned. I do not think, she dared to open the drawer. In addition, she is also very lazy to work. She's washing results, for me is not clean. Until she makes my husband angry. Finally, she stopped working at the will of herself.
In October 1998, I do not menstruate. So I see a doctor Amrizal. After I did a urine test, I was definitely pregnant. My pregnancy is the second time, I also experienced the same pain. Though I am still breastfeeding my son, ALB, although my baby is 21 months old, I stopped breastfeeding my son until he was even two years. When my pregnancy was already entering the third month.
In pregnancy my second son, I did my urine test at doctor Amrizal. But in every month, I check my health and my baby on Mother Midwife Rakitem. And in my pregnancy, I also experienced the same suffering. I experienced nausea and vomiting of pregnancy until I entered the seventh month.
In sickness, I have to take care of my son who is still very small. If no one watching him, I worry about the safety of he. Moreover, my son loves to play outside the house, because I hired a girl aged about 18 years. She is Rusminah name.
She is very honest, but at the time she worked, she recklessly, to make me angry. One day, after she ironed our clothes, then she put the iron on a chair., Until the seat to be forfeited. Although she made a mistake, and makes my heart mad, but I did not vent my anger for she, I tried to be patient. She worked for two months and finally she asked to stop working.
In the age of the womb I entered the ninth month, I hired a woman again. She was a widow aged about fifty-five years. She is Jaminem name. Which she introduced to me was my mother Karsem. Surprisingly, when for the first time I saw her face, at once my heart she hated until I was hesitant to accept she.
Until the time comes I will give birth to my baby, on the eve of Wednesday morning, Thursday June 10, 1999. At about 4:00 AM, I felt my stomach is sick. Therefore, my husband and I went to the maternity home "Tirtha Golden" with a motorcycle ride, and to keep my son ALB stay at home with Mom Jaminem.
Arriving at the maternity hospital, midwife mother invited us to sit, and then record my identity. She told me to lie down and examine my health and my baby's health as well. She told me to go for a walk along the corridor. Until at around 10:00. M., I feel my stomach is sick. Then she told me to lie down in bed, and look at my vagina. Then she gave me the injection of liquid vitamins.
She sat waiting for me, until it comes time for me to push. My husband is sitting in a chair next to where I lay. After about half an hour, I repeatedly push, then Mother Midwife my cervix cut three times. She told me to take a deep breath and then push so tight. Many times I push until the end of my second son was born safely at 1:00 PM, on Thursday, June 10, 1999.
To name our second son, my husband also handed over entirely to me. And I gave him a name: "Yoga Brahmacharya Kumaraseta" Because I hope that someday my son to the two it will be a person who always remember God Almighty. And also a holy man who was born and his heart, can also be a sweet name so as to uphold the high degree of family.
After I gave birth, midwife mother sewed my cervix that has been torn with scissors. Before she sewed, she gave me a handkerchief and a towel, and told me to bite him, to endure pain during suturing. I do not understand why she did this. Yet when I check my pregnancy to the last one before I gave birth to my second son, I have pleaded she, so before doing the sewing, so I was given the anesthetic, and use the thread without removable.
A week later, I came again to the Mother Midwife to remove the stitching thread. Before she took off the string, she also gave me a handkerchief and a towel, and told me to bite. What is the reason she did not do the same thing when I gave birth to my first son. Before she sewed, she gives anesthetic, and also use threads without removable. After she finished suturing, She said (in Java), "It became like a virgin again, Amen."
For approximately five months working on my mother Jaminem, as long as she's why I rate properties. It turns out I hate when I first saw her face, it is a sign that she is a person who is not good. She does not like to keep clean. I see the time she slept, she did not wash his hands and feet. Both feet she is very dirty because she does not wear footwear.
In terms of cleanliness in cooking, she is also extremely disgusting. She lazy to wash the vegetables, I've seen when she washed spinach leaves in a container just a one time cleaning. Should have at least three times washing, freshly cooked. I just found out, she would rather buy a decent meal at the diner instead of eating food that she cooked herself.
Every time she told me to go for shopping in the market, she always returns to me the rest of my change, the value of money is always less than Rp.1000, although its value is very small but I am still receiving. One day, when I was buying food at the diner, I was embarrassed after Mrs. Pini, who sells food told me that she Jaminem said to someone else when she was in her stall, "Money is only asked by the return Rp.50 Mrs. .. "
She returned the rest of the money to me, and I accept it. Rather she did not return, then I ask for my change. She has said one of the remaining amount of money that she has returned to me, the truth is Rp.150, rather than Rp 50. She has been harassing me. It made me angry, but I still did not make it. Big or Small return the remaining money must be returned, it does not mean I'm stingy, but I apply the discipline.
Another bad thing she did was she loves to steal rice and detergent. Pick it up bit by bit, and once collected a lot, and her daughter came to pick up the goods. I once saw when she took the rice, she said: "Cooking rice is three servings, yes ma'am ..?" I replied: "Yes", but she took four drinks. But I pretended not to know about it. I also worry if I'm wrong to see it. And finally I stopped him to work at my place.
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